"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some more great tips from Yahoo..I swear this guy must be from the PUA/DJ lands, lol.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah but you have to realize that this community is much bigger than us here at sosuave.

If you've been here for awhile you'd know that all of those tips are things that are preached here daily.

Good read though.
 
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edger said:
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/81390/10-signs-youre-being-needy

I don't know guys, it really seems these days, that DJism is being preached within the Matrix as well(you have guys like Mystery and Neil Strauss, and now this stuff coming out of Yahoo). It's a great thing to see.
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I probably missed something...but since when Neil Strauss and Mystery were DJs? Maybe they are...but that's not the point I am trying to make.

Do not confuse PUAs with DJs.
 
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Latinoman said:
I probably missed something...but since when Neil Strauss and Mystery were DJs? Maybe they are...but that's not the point I am trying to make.

Do not confuse PUAs with DJs.
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I've always agreed that Pick-Up Artists aren't necessarily DJ's. A DJ is not only one who can hook a hot woman, but more importantly, one who can KEEP her around for the long-term.

I was trying to say in my post, that the article supports a DJ mentality and how Mystery(for the most part) and Strauss do as well, although I still think Mystery's game isn't that great, after seeing him pedastalizing that chick Sarah in his YouTube video.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you've been here for awhile you'd know that all of those tips are things that are preached here daily.
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I agree. Most of it was true, but it's very basic stuff that you really should have under your belt the first 3 days on here.

Not worthy of links in two separate threads.
 
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