"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Some more great tips from Yahoo..I swear this guy must be from the PUA/DJ lands, lol.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah but you have to realize that this community is much bigger than us here at sosuave.

If you've been here for awhile you'd know that all of those tips are things that are preached here daily.

Good read though.
 
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edger said:
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/81390/10-signs-youre-being-needy

I don't know guys, it really seems these days, that DJism is being preached within the Matrix as well(you have guys like Mystery and Neil Strauss, and now this stuff coming out of Yahoo). It's a great thing to see.
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I probably missed something...but since when Neil Strauss and Mystery were DJs? Maybe they are...but that's not the point I am trying to make.

Do not confuse PUAs with DJs.
 
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Latinoman said:
I probably missed something...but since when Neil Strauss and Mystery were DJs? Maybe they are...but that's not the point I am trying to make.

Do not confuse PUAs with DJs.
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I've always agreed that Pick-Up Artists aren't necessarily DJ's. A DJ is not only one who can hook a hot woman, but more importantly, one who can KEEP her around for the long-term.

I was trying to say in my post, that the article supports a DJ mentality and how Mystery(for the most part) and Strauss do as well, although I still think Mystery's game isn't that great, after seeing him pedastalizing that chick Sarah in his YouTube video.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you've been here for awhile you'd know that all of those tips are things that are preached here daily.
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I agree. Most of it was true, but it's very basic stuff that you really should have under your belt the first 3 days on here.

Not worthy of links in two separate threads.
 
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