Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Some more great tips from Yahoo..I swear this guy must be from the PUA/DJ lands, lol.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah but you have to realize that this community is much bigger than us here at sosuave.

If you've been here for awhile you'd know that all of those tips are things that are preached here daily.

Good read though.
 

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edger said:
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/81390/10-signs-youre-being-needy

I don't know guys, it really seems these days, that DJism is being preached within the Matrix as well(you have guys like Mystery and Neil Strauss, and now this stuff coming out of Yahoo). It's a great thing to see.
I probably missed something...but since when Neil Strauss and Mystery were DJs? Maybe they are...but that's not the point I am trying to make.

Do not confuse PUAs with DJs.
 

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Latinoman said:
I probably missed something...but since when Neil Strauss and Mystery were DJs? Maybe they are...but that's not the point I am trying to make.

Do not confuse PUAs with DJs.
I've always agreed that Pick-Up Artists aren't necessarily DJ's. A DJ is not only one who can hook a hot woman, but more importantly, one who can KEEP her around for the long-term.

I was trying to say in my post, that the article supports a DJ mentality and how Mystery(for the most part) and Strauss do as well, although I still think Mystery's game isn't that great, after seeing him pedastalizing that chick Sarah in his YouTube video.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you've been here for awhile you'd know that all of those tips are things that are preached here daily.
I agree. Most of it was true, but it's very basic stuff that you really should have under your belt the first 3 days on here.

Not worthy of links in two separate threads.
 
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