"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some more great tips from Yahoo..I swear this guy must be from the PUA/DJ lands, lol.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah but you have to realize that this community is much bigger than us here at sosuave.

If you've been here for awhile you'd know that all of those tips are things that are preached here daily.

Good read though.
 

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edger said:
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/81390/10-signs-youre-being-needy

I don't know guys, it really seems these days, that DJism is being preached within the Matrix as well(you have guys like Mystery and Neil Strauss, and now this stuff coming out of Yahoo). It's a great thing to see.
I probably missed something...but since when Neil Strauss and Mystery were DJs? Maybe they are...but that's not the point I am trying to make.

Do not confuse PUAs with DJs.
 

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Latinoman said:
I probably missed something...but since when Neil Strauss and Mystery were DJs? Maybe they are...but that's not the point I am trying to make.

Do not confuse PUAs with DJs.
I've always agreed that Pick-Up Artists aren't necessarily DJ's. A DJ is not only one who can hook a hot woman, but more importantly, one who can KEEP her around for the long-term.

I was trying to say in my post, that the article supports a DJ mentality and how Mystery(for the most part) and Strauss do as well, although I still think Mystery's game isn't that great, after seeing him pedastalizing that chick Sarah in his YouTube video.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you've been here for awhile you'd know that all of those tips are things that are preached here daily.
I agree. Most of it was true, but it's very basic stuff that you really should have under your belt the first 3 days on here.

Not worthy of links in two separate threads.
 
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