"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"Some Guys Make $600,000 a Year"
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Right now, I make enough for me to support all my expensive hobbies (motorcycles, rock climbing, snowboarding) have plenty of savings, and have a rough over my head. I don't need anything else, and I make substantially less than 100k a year.
Big Neil, you should get rid of this girl, she doesn't seem like she is a decent person, so why you would keep her around I don't know
Your Richlist Position 103,478,261
You are the 103,478,261 richest person in the world! You're in the TOP 1.72%
richest people in the world!
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$100,000?
$600,00?
$80,000?
Nope.
$45,000
I started my own company in late 1996, hence the income explosion and subsequent crash. It was also a reflection of the dot com bubble.TillTheEndOfTime said:Why the big jump after 1997? Why didn't that happen in 1995?
Things in the economy were never the same since.
As far as telling girls what we make, I do it because I figure all they ever hear is BS and I want to prove myself, even if I don't compare to the lies of others.
And good point ka mate.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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bigneil said:
Neil why do you need to prove yourself to anyone but yourself ? Fvck what other people think, tell them you get paid in trident layers.
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Espi said:
Respectfully disagree. The seventy five year-old you describe will not attract the hottest women. He may secure them, but for different reasons. She will marry the rich elderly man....but rest assured she is not attracted to him/is probably secksing a younger better looking male.
I think the happy medium of this whole discussion is to just earn what makes YOU happy and fvck as many broads as you can along the way. If you get married, then you can worry about income for dual persons.
Problem is, it takes a reasonable, down-to-earth man to appreciate what 1.72% means. America doesn't make those anymore.ka_mate said:
Half the people on Earth live on less than $2 a day. And yes, that means whole regions of the globe are almost totally inhabited by people who have sex their whole lives without putting a price tag on it. Goes without saying, America doesn't do that anymore.