"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"Some Guys Make $600,000 a Year"
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Right now, I make enough for me to support all my expensive hobbies (motorcycles, rock climbing, snowboarding) have plenty of savings, and have a rough over my head. I don't need anything else, and I make substantially less than 100k a year.
Big Neil, you should get rid of this girl, she doesn't seem like she is a decent person, so why you would keep her around I don't know
Your Richlist Position 103,478,261
You are the 103,478,261 richest person in the world! You're in the TOP 1.72%
richest people in the world!
Income Entered
$100,000?
$600,00?
$80,000?
Nope.
$45,000
I started my own company in late 1996, hence the income explosion and subsequent crash. It was also a reflection of the dot com bubble.TillTheEndOfTime said:Why the big jump after 1997? Why didn't that happen in 1995?
Things in the economy were never the same since.
As far as telling girls what we make, I do it because I figure all they ever hear is BS and I want to prove myself, even if I don't compare to the lies of others.
And good point ka mate.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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bigneil said:
Neil why do you need to prove yourself to anyone but yourself ? Fvck what other people think, tell them you get paid in trident layers.
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Espi said:
Respectfully disagree. The seventy five year-old you describe will not attract the hottest women. He may secure them, but for different reasons. She will marry the rich elderly man....but rest assured she is not attracted to him/is probably secksing a younger better looking male.
I think the happy medium of this whole discussion is to just earn what makes YOU happy and fvck as many broads as you can along the way. If you get married, then you can worry about income for dual persons.
Problem is, it takes a reasonable, down-to-earth man to appreciate what 1.72% means. America doesn't make those anymore.ka_mate said:
Half the people on Earth live on less than $2 a day. And yes, that means whole regions of the globe are almost totally inhabited by people who have sex their whole lives without putting a price tag on it. Goes without saying, America doesn't do that anymore.