"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"Some Guys Make $600,000 a Year"
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Right now, I make enough for me to support all my expensive hobbies (motorcycles, rock climbing, snowboarding) have plenty of savings, and have a rough over my head. I don't need anything else, and I make substantially less than 100k a year.
Big Neil, you should get rid of this girl, she doesn't seem like she is a decent person, so why you would keep her around I don't know
Your Richlist Position 103,478,261
You are the 103,478,261 richest person in the world! You're in the TOP 1.72%
richest people in the world!
Income Entered
$100,000?
$600,00?
$80,000?
Nope.
$45,000
I started my own company in late 1996, hence the income explosion and subsequent crash. It was also a reflection of the dot com bubble.TillTheEndOfTime said:Why the big jump after 1997? Why didn't that happen in 1995?
Things in the economy were never the same since.
As far as telling girls what we make, I do it because I figure all they ever hear is BS and I want to prove myself, even if I don't compare to the lies of others.
And good point ka mate.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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bigneil said:
Neil why do you need to prove yourself to anyone but yourself ? Fvck what other people think, tell them you get paid in trident layers.
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Espi said:
Respectfully disagree. The seventy five year-old you describe will not attract the hottest women. He may secure them, but for different reasons. She will marry the rich elderly man....but rest assured she is not attracted to him/is probably secksing a younger better looking male.
I think the happy medium of this whole discussion is to just earn what makes YOU happy and fvck as many broads as you can along the way. If you get married, then you can worry about income for dual persons.
Problem is, it takes a reasonable, down-to-earth man to appreciate what 1.72% means. America doesn't make those anymore.ka_mate said:
Half the people on Earth live on less than $2 a day. And yes, that means whole regions of the globe are almost totally inhabited by people who have sex their whole lives without putting a price tag on it. Goes without saying, America doesn't do that anymore.