It's also knowing how to ask. There's the stereotype in interrogations in TV and movies that you bully or trick people into telling you their secrets. Real interrogations involve forming friendships and sympathising with people. People will tell you anything if they think you will understand and empathise with them. There's also some other tricks like being silent etc etc. You guys should read that stuff, super useful even outside of dating.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Some great questions to ask on dates....
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