It's also knowing how to ask. There's the stereotype in interrogations in TV and movies that you bully or trick people into telling you their secrets. Real interrogations involve forming friendships and sympathising with people. People will tell you anything if they think you will understand and empathise with them. There's also some other tricks like being silent etc etc. You guys should read that stuff, super useful even outside of dating.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Some great questions to ask on dates....
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