It's also knowing how to ask. There's the stereotype in interrogations in TV and movies that you bully or trick people into telling you their secrets. Real interrogations involve forming friendships and sympathising with people. People will tell you anything if they think you will understand and empathise with them. There's also some other tricks like being silent etc etc. You guys should read that stuff, super useful even outside of dating.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Some great questions to ask on dates....
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