"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some dudes are just dumb. Assuming this is real, of course.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Would that same jeweler expose females?
dumb question you known they won't, plus woman would always carry a guy to pay for her.

of course unless that woman kewn who the hubby was and wanted him,then it was fair game
 

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dumb question you known they won't, plus woman would always carry a guy to pay for her.

of course unless that woman kewn who the hubby was and wanted him,then it was fair game
Right... That double standard has created a monster... So if your man enough to have another woman, your man enough to let your wife know and give her the option to "cheat". Thus there is no secrets, nothing to blow up in you or your wifes face.

The problem I had with "affairs" was the relationship partner elevating others over their spouse, and usually treating their spouse poorly in comparison. The other problem i had was that the affairs could end up getting the spouse damaged, socially, financially, physically or in other ways.
 

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Right... That double standard has created a monster... So if your man enough to have another woman, your man enough to let your wife know and give her the option to "cheat". Thus there is no secrets, nothing to blow up in you or your wifes face.

The problem I had with "affairs" was the relationship partner elevating others over their spouse, and usually treating their spouse poorly in comparison. The other problem i had was that the affairs could end up getting the spouse damaged, socially, financially, physically or in other ways.
that monster was always there, only now its more often you see it happen, plus doing so is bad for bussiness, i Don't doubt the boss will fire her in a month or 2 from now, he was cheating? yes he was, but he was spending, and now you can bet guys will dodge said store, I don't doubt they sales will take a hit
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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that monster was always there, only now its more often you see it happen, plus doing so is bad for business, i Don't doubt the boss will fire her in a month or 2 from now, he was cheating? yes he was, but he was spending, and now you can bet guys will dodge said store, I don't doubt they sales will take a hit
After all this discussion. I come out of it realizing we can be so sought after as a man, we can be LUSTED after and valued, and we as men have repetitions in upholding our boundaries with other females, that the new females won't test us much and stay satisfied, because they know we don't have a problem getting rid of them.
 

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I don't believe this story for a second, any guy who is buying jewelry for 2 different women does not make sense, betas hold 1 woman in esteem, if he did have a plate, why is he buying her jewelry, if he on that player **** he dont need to be buying her no jewels, shes a plate.
 

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That story does sound fabricated, but if it is real then how could anyone be so dumb?
It's like trying to buy drugs from a police officer in uniform.
I hope that guy doesn't go to prison. The entire ward would take advantage of him.
 

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I find it very unlikely that a store of such value wouldnt be property of a jewish man and jewish men are simply too clever to put emotional unreliable women in such position.

Its usually either his gf, his wife or his daughter and none of them would jeopardize their shop for a cheated housewife....the client spends 10k dollars so the client is their best friend.

They would probably even ask him if he wants to buy a necklace for his secretary.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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