"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some dudes are just dumb. Assuming this is real, of course.

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alvafe

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Would that same jeweler expose females?
dumb question you known they won't, plus woman would always carry a guy to pay for her.

of course unless that woman kewn who the hubby was and wanted him,then it was fair game
 

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dumb question you known they won't, plus woman would always carry a guy to pay for her.

of course unless that woman kewn who the hubby was and wanted him,then it was fair game
Right... That double standard has created a monster... So if your man enough to have another woman, your man enough to let your wife know and give her the option to "cheat". Thus there is no secrets, nothing to blow up in you or your wifes face.

The problem I had with "affairs" was the relationship partner elevating others over their spouse, and usually treating their spouse poorly in comparison. The other problem i had was that the affairs could end up getting the spouse damaged, socially, financially, physically or in other ways.
 

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Right... That double standard has created a monster... So if your man enough to have another woman, your man enough to let your wife know and give her the option to "cheat". Thus there is no secrets, nothing to blow up in you or your wifes face.

The problem I had with "affairs" was the relationship partner elevating others over their spouse, and usually treating their spouse poorly in comparison. The other problem i had was that the affairs could end up getting the spouse damaged, socially, financially, physically or in other ways.
that monster was always there, only now its more often you see it happen, plus doing so is bad for bussiness, i Don't doubt the boss will fire her in a month or 2 from now, he was cheating? yes he was, but he was spending, and now you can bet guys will dodge said store, I don't doubt they sales will take a hit
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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that monster was always there, only now its more often you see it happen, plus doing so is bad for business, i Don't doubt the boss will fire her in a month or 2 from now, he was cheating? yes he was, but he was spending, and now you can bet guys will dodge said store, I don't doubt they sales will take a hit
After all this discussion. I come out of it realizing we can be so sought after as a man, we can be LUSTED after and valued, and we as men have repetitions in upholding our boundaries with other females, that the new females won't test us much and stay satisfied, because they know we don't have a problem getting rid of them.
 

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I don't believe this story for a second, any guy who is buying jewelry for 2 different women does not make sense, betas hold 1 woman in esteem, if he did have a plate, why is he buying her jewelry, if he on that player **** he dont need to be buying her no jewels, shes a plate.
 

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That story does sound fabricated, but if it is real then how could anyone be so dumb?
It's like trying to buy drugs from a police officer in uniform.
I hope that guy doesn't go to prison. The entire ward would take advantage of him.
 

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I find it very unlikely that a store of such value wouldnt be property of a jewish man and jewish men are simply too clever to put emotional unreliable women in such position.

Its usually either his gf, his wife or his daughter and none of them would jeopardize their shop for a cheated housewife....the client spends 10k dollars so the client is their best friend.

They would probably even ask him if he wants to buy a necklace for his secretary.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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