"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some dudes are just dumb. Assuming this is real, of course.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would that same jeweler expose females?
dumb question you known they won't, plus woman would always carry a guy to pay for her.

of course unless that woman kewn who the hubby was and wanted him,then it was fair game
 

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dumb question you known they won't, plus woman would always carry a guy to pay for her.

of course unless that woman kewn who the hubby was and wanted him,then it was fair game
Right... That double standard has created a monster... So if your man enough to have another woman, your man enough to let your wife know and give her the option to "cheat". Thus there is no secrets, nothing to blow up in you or your wifes face.

The problem I had with "affairs" was the relationship partner elevating others over their spouse, and usually treating their spouse poorly in comparison. The other problem i had was that the affairs could end up getting the spouse damaged, socially, financially, physically or in other ways.
 

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Right... That double standard has created a monster... So if your man enough to have another woman, your man enough to let your wife know and give her the option to "cheat". Thus there is no secrets, nothing to blow up in you or your wifes face.

The problem I had with "affairs" was the relationship partner elevating others over their spouse, and usually treating their spouse poorly in comparison. The other problem i had was that the affairs could end up getting the spouse damaged, socially, financially, physically or in other ways.
that monster was always there, only now its more often you see it happen, plus doing so is bad for bussiness, i Don't doubt the boss will fire her in a month or 2 from now, he was cheating? yes he was, but he was spending, and now you can bet guys will dodge said store, I don't doubt they sales will take a hit
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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that monster was always there, only now its more often you see it happen, plus doing so is bad for business, i Don't doubt the boss will fire her in a month or 2 from now, he was cheating? yes he was, but he was spending, and now you can bet guys will dodge said store, I don't doubt they sales will take a hit
After all this discussion. I come out of it realizing we can be so sought after as a man, we can be LUSTED after and valued, and we as men have repetitions in upholding our boundaries with other females, that the new females won't test us much and stay satisfied, because they know we don't have a problem getting rid of them.
 

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I don't believe this story for a second, any guy who is buying jewelry for 2 different women does not make sense, betas hold 1 woman in esteem, if he did have a plate, why is he buying her jewelry, if he on that player **** he dont need to be buying her no jewels, shes a plate.
 

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That story does sound fabricated, but if it is real then how could anyone be so dumb?
It's like trying to buy drugs from a police officer in uniform.
I hope that guy doesn't go to prison. The entire ward would take advantage of him.
 

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I find it very unlikely that a store of such value wouldnt be property of a jewish man and jewish men are simply too clever to put emotional unreliable women in such position.

Its usually either his gf, his wife or his daughter and none of them would jeopardize their shop for a cheated housewife....the client spends 10k dollars so the client is their best friend.

They would probably even ask him if he wants to buy a necklace for his secretary.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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