backseatjuan
Banned
You better watch this, it is the don juan science.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Social networking: the science of six degrees of separation
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
So why dont some of us that use FB try an experiment?
Find someone you want to take out on a date/activity/meet by looking through your friends, that have friends you do not know. Stick to commenting/liking a post and direct messaging, dont send a friend request first. (you can always message a person if you are not friends) but might not see their full page. Post your experiences
Find someone you want to take out on a date/activity/meet by looking through your friends, that have friends you do not know. Stick to commenting/liking a post and direct messaging, dont send a friend request first. (you can always message a person if you are not friends) but might not see their full page. Post your experiences
backseatjuan
Banned
You have to just meet people. You don't know who they know, but chances are that just through six acquaintances everybody knows everybody. This is incredibly useful.