"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Social networking: the science of six degrees of separation

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MrWood

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So why dont some of us that use FB try an experiment?

Find someone you want to take out on a date/activity/meet by looking through your friends, that have friends you do not know. Stick to commenting/liking a post and direct messaging, dont send a friend request first. (you can always message a person if you are not friends) but might not see their full page. Post your experiences
 

backseatjuan

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You have to just meet people. You don't know who they know, but chances are that just through six acquaintances everybody knows everybody. This is incredibly useful.
 
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