backseatjuan
Banned
You better watch this, it is the don juan science.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Social networking: the science of six degrees of separation
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
So why dont some of us that use FB try an experiment?
Find someone you want to take out on a date/activity/meet by looking through your friends, that have friends you do not know. Stick to commenting/liking a post and direct messaging, dont send a friend request first. (you can always message a person if you are not friends) but might not see their full page. Post your experiences
Find someone you want to take out on a date/activity/meet by looking through your friends, that have friends you do not know. Stick to commenting/liking a post and direct messaging, dont send a friend request first. (you can always message a person if you are not friends) but might not see their full page. Post your experiences
backseatjuan
Banned
You have to just meet people. You don't know who they know, but chances are that just through six acquaintances everybody knows everybody. This is incredibly useful.