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Social circle game is by far one of the easiest ways to hook up with or meet women in public.
The dynamic about approaching groups works more in your favor if you're opening an all female group.
Mixed groups (males + females) can work well too, but be wary you aren't stepping over the wrong boundaries. The ratio of females in the group has to be much higher than the males.
The bottom line for any group set is you must engage EVERYONE.
Opening Female Groups
Do not get physical with anyone while you engage the group for the first time.
Meaning do not hug, do not handshake, do not lean in.
Your body language is being monitored and possibly tested by the entire group during this initial interaction.
Just engage in friendly banter, make an interesting comment about the venue, say something ridiculously funny, or maybe flirt a little, and then walk away.
I can't explain the meaning behind this, but something magical happens when you walk away. Your value will suddenly skyrocket.
When you return to that group, you'll receive a warm welcome back.
This is your turn to look for positive body language and IOI from everyone in that group.
And trust me when I say this: You'll see who's really interested in you immediately!
Opening Mixed Groups
First and foremost, engage the males in that group first.
I can't stress this enough! Shake their hand and introduce yourself.
Introduce yourself to the guy furthest away from you first, then the guy closest to you. After that introduce yourself to all the women in that group in a clockwise motion.
Mixed groups are a lot different than female groups.
You do not have to leave this time. You want to assume you are part of that group.
Try to establish rapport with the guys first, so they don't see you as a threat to the women in their group.
This type of psychology is deep rooted in our primal DNA, back when tribes relied on trust for survival.
There are pro's & con's about mixed sets.
Pro's - You'll meet new people, make new friends, get invited out to future gatherings, and meet potential love interests in the future.
Con's - Indicators of interest might be more difficult to read from females in the group due to other males being present.
More difficult to isolate women in the group from the first interaction.
The dynamic about approaching groups works more in your favor if you're opening an all female group.
Mixed groups (males + females) can work well too, but be wary you aren't stepping over the wrong boundaries. The ratio of females in the group has to be much higher than the males.
The bottom line for any group set is you must engage EVERYONE.
Opening Female Groups
Do not get physical with anyone while you engage the group for the first time.
Meaning do not hug, do not handshake, do not lean in.
Your body language is being monitored and possibly tested by the entire group during this initial interaction.
Just engage in friendly banter, make an interesting comment about the venue, say something ridiculously funny, or maybe flirt a little, and then walk away.
I can't explain the meaning behind this, but something magical happens when you walk away. Your value will suddenly skyrocket.
When you return to that group, you'll receive a warm welcome back.
This is your turn to look for positive body language and IOI from everyone in that group.
And trust me when I say this: You'll see who's really interested in you immediately!
Opening Mixed Groups
First and foremost, engage the males in that group first.
I can't stress this enough! Shake their hand and introduce yourself.
Introduce yourself to the guy furthest away from you first, then the guy closest to you. After that introduce yourself to all the women in that group in a clockwise motion.
Mixed groups are a lot different than female groups.
You do not have to leave this time. You want to assume you are part of that group.
Try to establish rapport with the guys first, so they don't see you as a threat to the women in their group.
This type of psychology is deep rooted in our primal DNA, back when tribes relied on trust for survival.
There are pro's & con's about mixed sets.
Pro's - You'll meet new people, make new friends, get invited out to future gatherings, and meet potential love interests in the future.
Con's - Indicators of interest might be more difficult to read from females in the group due to other males being present.
More difficult to isolate women in the group from the first interaction.
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