Have anyone tried this product to deal with social anxiety? I guess it's a drug that's seposed to help agaisnt anxiety attacks. This could be very useful in dealing with everyday tasks. Like big presentations, approach anxiety, etc. What you guys think? The side effects aren't bad so I might consider this.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Social anxiety, and SEREDYN.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LostAndConfused
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Do you really need it, Stéphane?
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Sounds like a product to take your money.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
Unless you have a serious diagnosed problem like bipolar disorder or schizophrenia, these kinds of drugs are usually not necessary.
Pre-approach anxiety is natural at first.. there is nothing wrong with you.
If it makes you feel any better I once peed on myself from nerves before approaching a girl, LOL!
If I could get past that without drugs, anyone can.
Pre-approach anxiety is natural at first.. there is nothing wrong with you.
If it makes you feel any better I once peed on myself from nerves before approaching a girl, LOL!
If I could get past that without drugs, anyone can.
Haha, yeah. Well i've done a lot of approaches it just seems like it doesn't go away. lol. I just ignore my anxiety, and go for it. It would be easier if I didn't have any anxiety.
PS: Can you guys check my journal, and give me some feeback on my approaches.
PS: Can you guys check my journal, and give me some feeback on my approaches.
Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
The intensity of it fades with time, but I'm not sure if it ever goes away completely.
Even in my prime, I felt a tinge of anxiety on certain approaches (where the girl was really fine)
You have my admiration for feeling that anxiety and not letting it hold you back
Even in my prime, I felt a tinge of anxiety on certain approaches (where the girl was really fine)
You have my admiration for feeling that anxiety and not letting it hold you back