"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Social anxiety, and SEREDYN.

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Have anyone tried this product to deal with social anxiety? I guess it's a drug that's seposed to help agaisnt anxiety attacks. This could be very useful in dealing with everyday tasks. Like big presentations, approach anxiety, etc. What you guys think? The side effects aren't bad so I might consider this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Probably not, but I think it could help.. I get really nervous before I approach, but usually when I get to the girl I feel a lot better.
 

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ask ur doc for one of the following: xanax, valium, lorazepam
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Unless you have a serious diagnosed problem like bipolar disorder or schizophrenia, these kinds of drugs are usually not necessary.

Pre-approach anxiety is natural at first.. there is nothing wrong with you.

If it makes you feel any better I once peed on myself from nerves before approaching a girl, LOL!

If I could get past that without drugs, anyone can.
 

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Haha, yeah. Well i've done a lot of approaches it just seems like it doesn't go away. lol. I just ignore my anxiety, and go for it. It would be easier if I didn't have any anxiety.

PS: Can you guys check my journal, and give me some feeback on my approaches.
 

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The intensity of it fades with time, but I'm not sure if it ever goes away completely.

Even in my prime, I felt a tinge of anxiety on certain approaches (where the girl was really fine)

You have my admiration for feeling that anxiety and not letting it hold you back
 
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