"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Social anxiety, and SEREDYN.

Stéphane

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Have anyone tried this product to deal with social anxiety? I guess it's a drug that's seposed to help agaisnt anxiety attacks. This could be very useful in dealing with everyday tasks. Like big presentations, approach anxiety, etc. What you guys think? The side effects aren't bad so I might consider this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Probably not, but I think it could help.. I get really nervous before I approach, but usually when I get to the girl I feel a lot better.
 

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ask ur doc for one of the following: xanax, valium, lorazepam
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Unless you have a serious diagnosed problem like bipolar disorder or schizophrenia, these kinds of drugs are usually not necessary.

Pre-approach anxiety is natural at first.. there is nothing wrong with you.

If it makes you feel any better I once peed on myself from nerves before approaching a girl, LOL!

If I could get past that without drugs, anyone can.
 

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Haha, yeah. Well i've done a lot of approaches it just seems like it doesn't go away. lol. I just ignore my anxiety, and go for it. It would be easier if I didn't have any anxiety.

PS: Can you guys check my journal, and give me some feeback on my approaches.
 

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The intensity of it fades with time, but I'm not sure if it ever goes away completely.

Even in my prime, I felt a tinge of anxiety on certain approaches (where the girl was really fine)

You have my admiration for feeling that anxiety and not letting it hold you back
 
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