"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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so youve been flirting alot

shagnscoob

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lets say youve been flirting alot with a girl and your pretty sure shed be interested in doing stuff and every now and then you have these really sexy conversations where its like 'so if i came over right now, what would you do?' and id rather keep it a mystery but its clear that we'd mess around. whats something clever and sexy to say in this position, so far ive thought of like 'why dont you come over and find out?' but that didnt work the time i used it.

im sure some of you have been in this position, what would YOU say?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ask her if she wants to watch a movie. i seem to get them to come over with that. of course we dont end up watching it.
 

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Originally posted by Lysol
ask her if she wants to watch a movie. i seem to get them to come over with that. of course we dont end up watching it.
lol as 8th grade as that is, that's pretty much how it works for me
 

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'so if i came over right now, what would you do?'

1. I would ask you to pass me the remote because I'm to lazy to get up.

2. I would let you make me dinner.

3. I might let you rub my back.

4. I would ask you to stop and get a six pack on the way over because i'm fresh out of beer.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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