"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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so youve been flirting alot

shagnscoob

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lets say youve been flirting alot with a girl and your pretty sure shed be interested in doing stuff and every now and then you have these really sexy conversations where its like 'so if i came over right now, what would you do?' and id rather keep it a mystery but its clear that we'd mess around. whats something clever and sexy to say in this position, so far ive thought of like 'why dont you come over and find out?' but that didnt work the time i used it.

im sure some of you have been in this position, what would YOU say?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lysol

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ask her if she wants to watch a movie. i seem to get them to come over with that. of course we dont end up watching it.
 

christz

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Originally posted by Lysol
ask her if she wants to watch a movie. i seem to get them to come over with that. of course we dont end up watching it.
lol as 8th grade as that is, that's pretty much how it works for me
 

biker_gixxer

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'so if i came over right now, what would you do?'

1. I would ask you to pass me the remote because I'm to lazy to get up.

2. I would let you make me dinner.

3. I might let you rub my back.

4. I would ask you to stop and get a six pack on the way over because i'm fresh out of beer.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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