"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So where are the "Kept Men"?

2Rocky

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Surely among this fine and quality crowd we have some gentlemen whose looks and charm have made women into "beta-providers". The woman provided money, or lodging, or paid for dates, or gave gifts beyond an equal reciprocal share.

Please share your secrets, and tell us....How did that go for you?

And no...Your mother doesn't count.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hal9000

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When I was running with the swinger crowd as a single guy I had couples buying my food, drinks, lap dances, taking me on trips with them, etc. It was pretty cool but I knew I always had to be ready to perform and if I didn't I'd be cut loose since there were always tons of guys willing to take my place. I know that's not exactly what you mean but its probably as close as I'll ever get. Lol
 

thinker

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I have never had women pay my rent or car payment, however I have had women pay for dates and buy me some expensive gifts ( I didn't ask for these things they just did them for me). As far as secrets I don't have any other than perhaps treating all the women the same, some will like me and others won't and I just focus on the ones that want to be with me. O one more secret I have a big diick, know how to use it , and can fuuck for hours, this I think has helped me a little bit.
 

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I have never had women pay my rent or car payment, however I have had women pay for dates and buy me some expensive gifts ( I didn't ask for these things they just did them for me). As far as secrets I don't have any other than perhaps treating all the women the same, some will like me and others won't and I just focus on the ones that want to be with me. O one more secret I have a big diick, know how to use it , and can fuuck for hours, this I think has helped me a little bit.
Yea, my current lady does this. Not crazy about it either.
 

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@RickTheToad as long as it isn't excessive I don't mind, part of being with women is letting them do nice things for you. Just make sure you show them appreciation and don't take advantage of them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrgoodstuff

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It's happened before, I never like people buying me things. Makes me feel I owe them something.
If it's your love interest and she's always buying you something and you don't like it because of that feeling just let her know you wouldn't do it for her. You don't feel like that. That will level it out quick.
 

SgtSplacker

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Those guys aren't allowed online. They are rubbing the feet of their owners as they sleep.
 

cola

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im not kept, but i do make women do stuff for me. Buy me food, clothes, pay for dates. It’s a scientific fact that people like you more when you have them do you favors (invest) in you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrgoodstuff

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im not kept, but i do make women do stuff for me. Buy me food, clothes, pay for dates. It’s a scientific fact that people like you more when you have them do you favors (invest) in you.
Definately scientific! Nobody hates anything worse than "losing" their investment.
 
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