"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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So where are the "Kept Men"?

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Surely among this fine and quality crowd we have some gentlemen whose looks and charm have made women into "beta-providers". The woman provided money, or lodging, or paid for dates, or gave gifts beyond an equal reciprocal share.

Please share your secrets, and tell us....How did that go for you?

And no...Your mother doesn't count.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When I was running with the swinger crowd as a single guy I had couples buying my food, drinks, lap dances, taking me on trips with them, etc. It was pretty cool but I knew I always had to be ready to perform and if I didn't I'd be cut loose since there were always tons of guys willing to take my place. I know that's not exactly what you mean but its probably as close as I'll ever get. Lol
 

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I have never had women pay my rent or car payment, however I have had women pay for dates and buy me some expensive gifts ( I didn't ask for these things they just did them for me). As far as secrets I don't have any other than perhaps treating all the women the same, some will like me and others won't and I just focus on the ones that want to be with me. O one more secret I have a big diick, know how to use it , and can fuuck for hours, this I think has helped me a little bit.
 

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I have never had women pay my rent or car payment, however I have had women pay for dates and buy me some expensive gifts ( I didn't ask for these things they just did them for me). As far as secrets I don't have any other than perhaps treating all the women the same, some will like me and others won't and I just focus on the ones that want to be with me. O one more secret I have a big diick, know how to use it , and can fuuck for hours, this I think has helped me a little bit.
Yea, my current lady does this. Not crazy about it either.
 

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@RickTheToad as long as it isn't excessive I don't mind, part of being with women is letting them do nice things for you. Just make sure you show them appreciation and don't take advantage of them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's happened before, I never like people buying me things. Makes me feel I owe them something.
If it's your love interest and she's always buying you something and you don't like it because of that feeling just let her know you wouldn't do it for her. You don't feel like that. That will level it out quick.
 

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Those guys aren't allowed online. They are rubbing the feet of their owners as they sleep.
 

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im not kept, but i do make women do stuff for me. Buy me food, clothes, pay for dates. It’s a scientific fact that people like you more when you have them do you favors (invest) in you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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im not kept, but i do make women do stuff for me. Buy me food, clothes, pay for dates. It’s a scientific fact that people like you more when you have them do you favors (invest) in you.
Definately scientific! Nobody hates anything worse than "losing" their investment.
 
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