"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

So when you go into a bar and approach a group

Joined
Aug 28, 2015
Messages
295
Reaction score
32
Whats the best openers/conversation topics to go in with and lead on? Wanting to befriend them/talk to a certain girl.

I noticed sometimes when i approach a girl in a group directly i get **** blocked alot a girl says shes my girlfriend i swear this was like 3 times with the same chick lmao. So how do i avoid crap like this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Glassguy

Moderator
Joined
Apr 25, 2016
Messages
4,789
Reaction score
8,861
Age
49
The few times this has paid off for me, I have told the c0ckblocking gf of hers that "I'm here to chill out and have a good time, not eat her" with a smile on my face. I also tell her that she is definitely the type my good looking friend goes for, but he couldn't make it out tonight.
Realize they aren't c0ckblocking you to protect their friend. They are jealous and don't want their friend leaving them alone. The line about your good looking friend may pacify the gf for the evening and she will let you move in.

It's also a good idea to small talk the friend a little so she doesn't feel isolated.

Give it a try.
 

NSX-R

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2014
Messages
1,219
Reaction score
821
Location
The land of improvement
Act like you are the one who makes this party. Ask them with full confidense , if they have good time and then introduce yourself. First 10 minutes or so listen to everybody and later try to isolate your target. Remember , everybody will notice that you are there for a certain reason so being smooth is your only bet. Or you could just leave the group alone and later join the chick that you want to approach. Try to have fun first.
 

logicallefty

Moderator
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
6,000
Reaction score
5,151
Age
52
Location
Northeast Florida, USA
Sit close to the group, listen in on their conversation a little bit, and then join it with your input. Wow the whole group with your conversation and then scoot over and join. I have done this, and I actually just saw a guy do this about a week ago at a cafeteria I was eating in at lunch time. The group was talking about video games. He was at the table next. He started talking about the game. And after about 10 minutes he just moved over to their table and they all kept talking. I didn't see if he scored or not, I left before that.

Another option I have done is accidentely head to the restroom or out for a smoke or fresh air at the same time she does.
 

Roober

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2016
Messages
2,372
Reaction score
2,120
I have tried a different approach a couple times.

Walk around like you own the place and greet all groups of women when you walk in or make your way around. Cheers, hi five, "are you guys having a great time? enjoy your night" or whatever matches your personality... Then go do your thing, ignore them, and keep an eye out for eye contact... I have probably done this 5 different times and 2 women orbited near me... Didn't close with a number, but had some good convos... Still working on the number closing.

Granted ,I was with the boys, so it didn't matter if they came up or not.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top