"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So what's your baldness situation?

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I tried Finasteride for its effect on BPH. One of the side effects is "retrograde ejaculation". :eek: It was too unnatural for me, so I didn't continue with it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MatureDJ said:
I tried Finasteride for its effect on BPH. One of the side effects is "retrograde ejaculation". :eek: It was too unnatural for me, so I didn't continue with it.
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They rarely give Finasteride for BPH. You were most likely on Tamsulosin (Flomax) or Advodart (dutasteride). Even then, that is the oral dose, not the topical one.
 
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29 and I currently shave my head every 3 days or so with a razor. I still have the same hairline but I have diffuse pattern balding, where the entire crown area is just thinning instead of having a receding hairline.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PeasantPlayer said:
It's not my theory it's peer reviewed research done by scientists not a lousy dermatologist lol
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Sure. Whatever you say dude. I know this works as it has worked for millions of men. But believe whatever you wish. When it's alopecia areata, it is undetermined if it's 100% genetic or not. Regardless, if it is, this system will work to regrow and slow down or reverse hair loss. But, again, do whatever you wish. It's your hair, not mine.
 
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RickTheToad said:
They rarely give Finasteride for BPH. You were most likely on Tamsulosin (Flomax) or Advodart (dutasteride). Even then, that is the oral dose, not the topical one.
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My bad! Yes, it was Tamulosin. Interestingly, I have been on Terazosin, and it has a very nice Viagra-like effect. :D Of course, as I take that prior to going to bed, it makes going too long without fapping impossible.
 
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My hair is definitely thinning. I'm 35 now and first noticed it when i was about 22, since then my forehead has slowly got bigger.. From the chart i'd say I am 2,2... I really really do not suit a shaved head, it looks damn terrible on me. If the receding continues I'll definitely get a hair transplant....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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switch7 said:
My hair is definitely thinning. I'm 35 now and first noticed it when i was about 22, since then my forehead has slowly got bigger.. From the chart i'd say I am 2,2... I really really do not suit a shaved head, it looks damn terrible on me. If the receding continues I'll definitely get a hair transplant....
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They gave solutions here that supposedly provide 30-50% improvement. Thickening of existing fibres and regrowth and new growth.
 
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Nearly 35 and still have full, thick hair which grows so fast that I need to go to the barber shop every 20 days or so. Not a single grey/white spot either. I remember having read some research online stating that the "best" boding age for young men is 23-28, after which you could pretty much hold it until late 40s or early 50s. Plus, it's genetics I guess. My dad used to have full, thick black hair at his 50y anniversary and after that he slightly started bolding - top of the head first, then the sides.Sick part is my dad's dad got completely white hair early 30s and my mom's dad got completely bold during his late 20s.
 
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I shave my hair down. I have thinning but I can make the head shaved look work because i used to do it when I was younger. My current style is very similar to the attached picture, My head shape is similar as well so it works on me.

Also, If interested, I've heard about Men using a dermaroller to "wound" the scalp and the healing process causes hair to grow through regenerating. I looked into it and many Men have regrown their hair this way with very positive results. Some combined dermarolling with Minoxidil, Others did it without Minoxidil and they still had results with regrowth.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I shave my hair down. I have thinning but I can make the head shaved look work because i used to do it when I was younger. My current style is very similar to the attached picture, My head shape is similar as well so it works on me.

Also, If interested, I've heard about Men using a dermaroller to "wound" the scalp and the healing process causes hair to grow through regenerating. I looked into it and many Men have regrown their hair this way with very positive results. Some combined dermarolling with Minoxidil, Others did it without Minoxidil and they still had results with regrowth.
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To my post above, here's a link where this guy talks about it
although theres a lot of information to be found on this if you search it out via. google.

Also known as "Microneedling". I saw on a hair loss forum, Some guy butchered his scalp with blood pouring all over the place. At first I thought it was a joke but realized he was serious. He seemed to have a ton of hair growth this way lol.
 
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I have full hair, I doubt I'll ever go bald. At least I'm not genetically predisposed to lose it. If I'm like my father it will slowly start turning white/light gray at around 40. My grandfather on my father's side had thinner hair, but it was even. On my mother's side he has lots of hair.

I friend of mine (same age, 27) rapidly started losing hair at 16, he's pattern 5 and class 6 now. Same as his father, although he's completely bald.
 
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I'm going to be 43, full head of hair I have fine hair but no balding, grows fast every 5 weeks I need a hair cut. The grey hair is coming in but you expect that when your in your 40s. My dad retained his hair till he was late 60s its falling out now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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