Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Hi MDJ,My stateside bed is a twin because these days, why not?That said, in my younger days I had a full-size bed, and actually got some use of it.
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Somebody knows!Hi MDJ,
The most important feature of a Bed is having a Foot Board for leverage,and adequate pillows to place under them!
Awesome bed related tips. I'm super fussy about having a great bed, with nicely fitted quality sheets.The most important feature is that the frame is sturdy enough not to creak or move, and a bed like that is going to be made of hardwood. Also at minimum a firm mattress. The footboard should be high enough to put your feet against for good, deep, hard thrusts.
Mine is heavy cherry with a high headboard and sturdy footboard. It ordered it custom from a furniture maker and added support to make it as sturdy as an engineered bridge. With a normal thickness mattress the surface is exactly crotch height for me (this is important as well). It also comes apart with a socket wrench to be moved in 6 pieces easily, stainless steel hardware. It was close to 3g’s about 5 years ago. Needless to say the girlies love it.
Another thing is to have the bed made with tight fitting and tucked bedding that you can easily drag a woman around on without it bunching up.
Hi Bibles,Beds, as in the frame for a mattress and box spring, only exist because in the old days, people's homes were cold in the winter and being up off the floor made it less cold. In modern times, a bed frame is unnecessary and pointless, just a silly old tradition that hasn't died yet.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Hi Chowda,Hi Scaramunchee,
I once entertained the idea of getting a footboard during my venture to make my shag room reminisce of the Renaissance. On second thought, I’d rather not have my shins and knees resemble elderberries lol
Hi Duke,Somebody knows!
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.