"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So what size bed do you have?

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My stateside bed is a twin because these days, why not? :mad: That said, in my younger days I had a full-size bed, and actually got some use of it. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My stateside bed is a twin because these days, why not? :mad: That said, in my younger days I had a full-size bed, and actually got some use of it. :)
Hi MDJ,
The most important feature of a Bed is having a Foot Board for leverage,and adequate pillows to place under them!
 

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Here in UK, and in Europe, the sizes are different to US standard sizes.
In UK we have:
Single - 36" wide (2" narrower than a US 'Twin')
Three-Quarter - 48" wide
Double - 54" wide (Same as US 'Full')
King - 60" wide (US 'Queen')
Superking - 72" wide (Width of a US 'Calfornia King' but not as tall)

European sizes are a similar metric equivalent.

I have a UK size 'King' bed and mattress - but use 'Superking' sized quilts...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The most important feature is that the frame is sturdy enough not to creak or move, and a bed like that is going to be made of hardwood. Also at minimum a firm mattress. The footboard should be high enough to put your feet against for good, deep, hard thrusts.

Mine is heavy cherry with a high headboard and sturdy footboard. It ordered it custom from a furniture maker and added support to make it as sturdy as an engineered bridge. With a normal thickness mattress the surface is exactly crotch height for me (this is important as well). It also comes apart with a socket wrench to be moved in 6 pieces easily, stainless steel hardware. It was close to 3g’s about 5 years ago. Needless to say the girlies love it.

Another thing is to have the bed made with tight fitting and tucked bedding that you can easily drag a woman around on without it bunching up.
 

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The most important feature is that the frame is sturdy enough not to creak or move, and a bed like that is going to be made of hardwood. Also at minimum a firm mattress. The footboard should be high enough to put your feet against for good, deep, hard thrusts.

Mine is heavy cherry with a high headboard and sturdy footboard. It ordered it custom from a furniture maker and added support to make it as sturdy as an engineered bridge. With a normal thickness mattress the surface is exactly crotch height for me (this is important as well). It also comes apart with a socket wrench to be moved in 6 pieces easily, stainless steel hardware. It was close to 3g’s about 5 years ago. Needless to say the girlies love it.

Another thing is to have the bed made with tight fitting and tucked bedding that you can easily drag a woman around on without it bunching up.
Awesome bed related tips. I'm super fussy about having a great bed, with nicely fitted quality sheets.

If your intention is to smash multiple chicks on rotation, having a great bed is a absolute must.

No chick wants to be banged on this.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A man who is intending to have sex at his home needs to have a Queen or King sized bed. Those are the 2 bed sizes comfortable enough for 2 people. Queen sized is going to be a little bit more difficult for having 3somes. King sized might be more difficult to find well inside of some bedroom sizes.

I have a Queen sized bed.

Twin and Full sized beds are only good for guest bedrooms. A man would need to have a larger place for that. Men with one bedroom apartments are best served with a Queen or King.
 

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Beds, as in the frame for a mattress and box spring, only exist because in the old days, people's homes were cold in the winter and being up off the floor made it less cold. In modern times, a bed frame is unnecessary and pointless, just a silly old tradition that hasn't died yet.
 

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Beds, as in the frame for a mattress and box spring, only exist because in the old days, people's homes were cold in the winter and being up off the floor made it less cold. In modern times, a bed frame is unnecessary and pointless, just a silly old tradition that hasn't died yet.
Hi Bibles,
I ran a little sideline as a Dry wall/Plasterboard fixer,mainly to give a wayward Son a Trade...On occasion we had to repair Walls,where Young guys had Mattresses on the Floor and poked their feet through the walls...Also saw instances of Carpet being rotted through moist Foam Rubber mattresses.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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King. I'm okay with anything Full or up though.
 

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Hi Scaramunchee,
I once entertained the idea of getting a footboard during my venture to make my shag room reminisce of the Renaissance. On second thought, I’d rather not have my shins and knees resemble elderberries lol
Hi Chowda,
"Shag Room"?....I nearly choked on my Coco Pops....I think my Deflowering Chamber is far more Renaissance sounding.
 

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I actually spent quite a fair bit of money on a new bed last November.

King-Size bed, great new mattress, and spent quite a lot of money on new 1,000 thread cotton sheets. I think all up, between the frame, mattress, mattress protector and sheet set, I spent around $4k. Bought another sheet set recently, which set me back another $320.

As I am a shift-worker, and an insomniac, this has been the best investment I've made on myself in a decade or more. My last bed and mattress was getting close to 20 years old, and it became a disgrace.

Oh, and it also came with two adjacent drawers, and one large drawer.
 

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Hi Duke,
Being one of our Cognicenti,you probably have a wedged sex pillow,these really are great for giving her the big O....I made one thirty years ago out of Particleboard and upholstered it myself,they are great for the Ladies...Lost it in my marriage break up,but was actually able to purchase a purpose made one,quite recently!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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