"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So what do you think about the Gabby Petito case?

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Local North Port P D was in over their head and wasting time, effort, and money by following what his parents told them, not the facts, Brian’s ascertained tendencies, and his past history viewable on social media.
Haven't those pesky police been defunded yet? I thought people wanted them abolished.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That dude is a massive POS. Clearly he did it based on all of the actions he has taken, including acting super shady and lying to the people that picked him up and helped him in Wyoming on the road.

His story they said he told them makes no sense and he didn't have anything close to what he would have needed to have his story seem plausible.
 

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Her looks are nothing special
I agree.

I rate most women as

Hot
Cute
Average
Below Average

I find this easier than the 1-10 scale because what I consider a 6 may not be what you consider a 6. These labels have less specificity, which is good in getting agreement among multiple men in a discussion.

Gabby Petito was the low end of cute.
 

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She could of had anybody she wanted, look at her and then look at Bryan". I was like huh? Her looks are nothing special and he was not an ugly guy.
I don’t usually rate men, but he’s nothing special looks wise, average at best and more likely below…
She’s a few physical points above him, but what set her apart from the crowd was her personality and attitude. It’s quite visible in her pics and probably why the media and public got hooked on her story…
 

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Something is super sketchy about this whole situation. From his parents' behavior to the police's incompetence, to a wanna-be outdoors kid eluding the FBI for a whole month. Yet most authorities are still following dead leads.

Either the FBI knows something the public doesn't know yet. Like knowing where he is but building a case against him (even though they already have an arrest warrant for fraud), potentially waiting for more details on the autopsy to pick him up and charge them with that. Or something (behind the iron curtains) holding them back.

I doubt the FBI is as naive as the North Port Police department. These guys have access to phone records and conversations, to surveillance inside their home via Siri, Alexa, etc. There is no way this buffoon got home without his "fiance" with her van, and the parents are like oh okay let's take a camping trip, not respond to Gabby's family worry, lawyer up, and "losing" this POS, and not think there is something super fishy about this whole thing. I hope they don't expect the public (or jury, if it comes down to that) to believe their story.

I wonder if his parents are part of something which is making it harder to press them.

Either way, it is up to a higher power now. God, in whatever shape or form you believe that to be, will have the last say. And this POS should be more terrified of that than being caught alive.


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She's was at her peak SMV which makes attractive, but when compared to her peers she's average.
You're right. She would not have been anything special on a college campus.
 

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That dude is a massive POS. Clearly he did it based on all of the actions he has taken
Well, with strangulation now the officially released cause of death, he can’t claim it was accidental…
Dna samples taken from her will be his, so innocence will be a hard court jury sell.
Strangulation is an act of vicious rage pure and simple.
 

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Well, with strangulation now the released cause of death, he can’t claim it was accidental…
It was an act of vicious rage pure and simple.
The coroner def slipped up when he said: "Domestic abuse" referring to other cases he's worked on. The FBI clearly stated a few weeks back this was a homicide and with this cause of death, we can conclude the body was not left on the surface, but most likely buried. They just might not have a lot of physical evidence to convict him, unfortunately. I think we all, and the FBI know this sc*m bag did it but it is a little more complicated than going by assumptions for as much as his actions and his family's actions have spoken volumes.

Like I said before, they are being strategic with this case if they want to really nail him in court.

As for the parents, they will also be charged at some point but something is happening behind doors that the public is not allowed to know for obvious reasons. The FBI has probably instructed them to stay put and touch base with them on a daily basis.

If we are being honest here, this case will take a very long time even he is caught soon. Expect a Netflix documentary, for sure.

The bottom line here is learning about this as much as possible, domestic abuse (on either sex) can be disguised. Social media is not reality. Knowing your worth is critical when walking into a relationship and throughout. We can't fully trust some police, clearly, this could have been avoided, from her being murdered to the POS walking away. All could have been avoided with a little thing called competence.

Modern Man Advice
 

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I don’t usually rate men, but he’s nothing special looks wise, average at best and more likely below…
She’s a few physical points above him, but what set her apart from the crowd was her personality and attitude. It’s quite visible in her pics and probably why the media and public got hooked on her story…
He's bald, and even if he weren't, he'd be normie-tier that is only in the game because of his height.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I can’t believe this is still going on. I haven’t been following it but decided to read the thread. I just smh. My own takeaways is that women’s intuition is obviously not as flawless as women make it out to be or she would never have gotten herself into the situation.

Whatever the narrative, each person is responsible for their own decisions and where they “end up”.
 

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Looks like they found human remains near some of his personal belongings. Is he dead?
When they call the cadaver dog and Coroner out onsite, someone is…
I give it 99% probability unless dna testing proves otherwise …
Lesson learned: don’t go camping with dangerous critters. Put food in your sights, don’t be the food.
 

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When they call the cadaver dog and Coroner out onsite, someone is…
I give it 99% probability unless dna testing proves otherwise …
Lesson learned: don’t go camping with dangerous critters
So you're not thinking suicide?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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