Earlier in the week i was approached and asked by a girl what i thought about her. her friend had tried to hook us up like a year ago. never really had this kind of approach nor situation before how would a dj w years experience respond with words?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"So what do you think about me"?
- Thread starter J-Bone
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Either toss it back to her:
"What do you think I think about you?" or
"What should I think of you?"
"What do you think I think about you?" or
"What should I think of you?"
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
But then she asks "Why do you think I'm cool?..."
What can you say besides something about her tits?
What can you say besides something about her tits?
i actually said that i told her "you seem kinda cool" and then i told her a few good qualities but i limited how much i told her and i told her i'd like to get to know her better. now shes asked how she can get in touch with me i gotta figure out a way to take back the dominance (or lead). suggestions?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Docs
Banned
Everytime I got this line thrown at me, she's trying to assure herself that she's up to your standards.
So, you tell her that you think she's cool, because if she wasn't, then you wouldn't be there talking to her. However, *pushes the on button for the rating system*, you got 2 points for trying.
So, you tell her that you think she's cool, because if she wasn't, then you wouldn't be there talking to her. However, *pushes the on button for the rating system*, you got 2 points for trying.