Earlier in the week i was approached and asked by a girl what i thought about her. her friend had tried to hook us up like a year ago. never really had this kind of approach nor situation before how would a dj w years experience respond with words?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"So what do you think about me"?
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Either toss it back to her:
"What do you think I think about you?" or
"What should I think of you?"
"What do you think I think about you?" or
"What should I think of you?"
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
But then she asks "Why do you think I'm cool?..."
What can you say besides something about her tits?
What can you say besides something about her tits?
i actually said that i told her "you seem kinda cool" and then i told her a few good qualities but i limited how much i told her and i told her i'd like to get to know her better. now shes asked how she can get in touch with me i gotta figure out a way to take back the dominance (or lead). suggestions?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Everytime I got this line thrown at me, she's trying to assure herself that she's up to your standards.
So, you tell her that you think she's cool, because if she wasn't, then you wouldn't be there talking to her. However, *pushes the on button for the rating system*, you got 2 points for trying.
So, you tell her that you think she's cool, because if she wasn't, then you wouldn't be there talking to her. However, *pushes the on button for the rating system*, you got 2 points for trying.