I knew here from earlier, because we both went to the same YMCA when we were younger. She lives a block away from me. Everyday when I walk back from the library, I pass her house. She says hi to me and I say hi back and continue on. She is cute, playful, and has a nice body and I know she likes me, because she always says hi first and likes to play around with me. Once she even invited me in, but I declined. I do not know or care wether she has a boyfriend. I am a focused man. What should I do after the "hi" part?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So there is this girl....
- Thread starter Arsinel
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Just have a talk with her. No big deal really, and if you think the conversation went well and she seems attracted to you ask for her number, or tell her something like: "hey wanna go to xyz on wednesday and hang out?".
Krak
Don Juan
She invited you in and you declinedArsinel said:
Sounds like she wants a quickie from you. Just stop and talk with her next time you see her, see where it goes.
You probably don't want to say that but chances are if you play it right, she'll invite you in again. Then you can just make a move on her.
Rocko
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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