I knew here from earlier, because we both went to the same YMCA when we were younger. She lives a block away from me. Everyday when I walk back from the library, I pass her house. She says hi to me and I say hi back and continue on. She is cute, playful, and has a nice body and I know she likes me, because she always says hi first and likes to play around with me. Once she even invited me in, but I declined. I do not know or care wether she has a boyfriend. I am a focused man. What should I do after the "hi" part?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So there is this girl....
- Thread starter Arsinel
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Just have a talk with her. No big deal really, and if you think the conversation went well and she seems attracted to you ask for her number, or tell her something like: "hey wanna go to xyz on wednesday and hang out?".
Krak
Don Juan
She invited you in and you declinedArsinel said:
Sounds like she wants a quickie from you. Just stop and talk with her next time you see her, see where it goes.
You probably don't want to say that but chances are if you play it right, she'll invite you in again. Then you can just make a move on her.
Rocko
Senior Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Point Blank
Banned
- Joined
- Jul 11, 2006
- Messages
- 66
- Reaction score
- 0
Who cares?! I got a quarter-hundred posts now! W00t!!!!