I knew here from earlier, because we both went to the same YMCA when we were younger. She lives a block away from me. Everyday when I walk back from the library, I pass her house. She says hi to me and I say hi back and continue on. She is cute, playful, and has a nice body and I know she likes me, because she always says hi first and likes to play around with me. Once she even invited me in, but I declined. I do not know or care wether she has a boyfriend. I am a focused man. What should I do after the "hi" part?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just have a talk with her. No big deal really, and if you think the conversation went well and she seems attracted to you ask for her number, or tell her something like: "hey wanna go to xyz on wednesday and hang out?".
Krak
Don Juan
She invited you in and you declinedArsinel said:
Sounds like she wants a quickie from you. Just stop and talk with her next time you see her, see where it goes.
You probably don't want to say that but chances are if you play it right, she'll invite you in again. Then you can just make a move on her.
Rocko
Senior Don Juan
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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