nicksaiz65
Master Don Juan
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Interesting situation here. I don’t want to be just a one trick pony who can only bang girls from direct cold approach: I want to be able to handle more I thought I would make a thread about it.
I’ve been going out to the bars and clubs with my bois every single weekend to run game. Oftentimes, I put Snaps of the clubs we go to on my story.
There’s this girl I Cold Approached like, a year ago? I never really made anything happen with that (maybe I just never set up a date or something, maybe I didn’t know how to move it forward. I LITERALLY don’t know.)
But she slid up on my story and was like “Omg that looks like so much funnnnn. Where is this?” We went back and forth a bit. She was extremely easy to converse with. She asks me how I am first, and she was actually giving me whole paragraphs when responding. Turns out that we both still live in the same town. Eventually, I close and say “You should come out. Or hey, I go out in my own town too. I’ll show you some dope bars around here.”
She says, “Hell yeah. I’d love to go out with y’all.” I tell her to shoot me her number, which she does.
Now. I’m not sure that this interaction has the intent that I need it to have. I didn’t do the whole “Damn, you’re cute” over text cause that has always failed and blown up in my face. But I want to shoot my shot. I’m just not sure if this chick knows that I actually yknow, want her! I hope that inviting her out for drinks or to the bar/club like this makes that clear. To be frank, I’m not sure if it does. The worst case scenario here is that I end up accidentally friendzoning myself.
Or maybe she’s just using me. Y’all tell me lol. I still would like to shoot my shot out of principal though.
I’ve learned from the past that if you don’t make it sexual with the girl on that first date, expect to never see her again. That rule seems to always hold true. I’ve had issues in the past with these platonic ass dates where I don’t even end up kissing the girl. I don’t want that to happen anymore. Plus, pulling this one off would just be an epic close lol.
Basically, I want to know how I would successfully shoot my shot with this girl. It’s not as simple as a direct cold approach: so I’d love to know the best way to handle a more nuanced situation like this.
I’ve been going out to the bars and clubs with my bois every single weekend to run game. Oftentimes, I put Snaps of the clubs we go to on my story.
There’s this girl I Cold Approached like, a year ago? I never really made anything happen with that (maybe I just never set up a date or something, maybe I didn’t know how to move it forward. I LITERALLY don’t know.)
But she slid up on my story and was like “Omg that looks like so much funnnnn. Where is this?” We went back and forth a bit. She was extremely easy to converse with. She asks me how I am first, and she was actually giving me whole paragraphs when responding. Turns out that we both still live in the same town. Eventually, I close and say “You should come out. Or hey, I go out in my own town too. I’ll show you some dope bars around here.”
She says, “Hell yeah. I’d love to go out with y’all.” I tell her to shoot me her number, which she does.
Now. I’m not sure that this interaction has the intent that I need it to have. I didn’t do the whole “Damn, you’re cute” over text cause that has always failed and blown up in my face. But I want to shoot my shot. I’m just not sure if this chick knows that I actually yknow, want her! I hope that inviting her out for drinks or to the bar/club like this makes that clear. To be frank, I’m not sure if it does. The worst case scenario here is that I end up accidentally friendzoning myself.
Or maybe she’s just using me. Y’all tell me lol. I still would like to shoot my shot out of principal though.
I’ve learned from the past that if you don’t make it sexual with the girl on that first date, expect to never see her again. That rule seems to always hold true. I’ve had issues in the past with these platonic ass dates where I don’t even end up kissing the girl. I don’t want that to happen anymore. Plus, pulling this one off would just be an epic close lol.
Basically, I want to know how I would successfully shoot my shot with this girl. It’s not as simple as a direct cold approach: so I’d love to know the best way to handle a more nuanced situation like this.
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