"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So She likes me, but there's an issue.

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SmoothTalker

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Hey DJ's, I need some advice. Yesterday during a conversation it came out that this girl likes me. (I knew it before she said it, lots of flirting) But at the moment I'm persuing somebody else, and besides she has a boyfriend.

Now she keeps asking if I like her, and she's the kind of person that would take it seriously if I say no, and I want to keep a possibility open, so how do I handle this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You'd get less views if you stopped checking yourself.

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"Why do you keep asking, are you trying to indiscreetly tell me that you're passionately in love with me or trying to get into my pants or something?"

If you already know she likes you and she's said it,

"Why don't you ask me on a date and find out if I like you?"
 
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since ur persuing that other chick, why not just date this girl that likes u mayb get a lil practice in and keep your eye on the gold bra, after all ***** is *****
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jerky Boi

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Don't ever tell a girl that you like her. Keep her guessing. Show some signs every once in a while but I wouldn't tell her.

Back to the point. If it was me, I'd just try and hook up with the girl that you are talking to right now.
 
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