"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So She likes me, but there's an issue.

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SmoothTalker

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Hey DJ's, I need some advice. Yesterday during a conversation it came out that this girl likes me. (I knew it before she said it, lots of flirting) But at the moment I'm persuing somebody else, and besides she has a boyfriend.

Now she keeps asking if I like her, and she's the kind of person that would take it seriously if I say no, and I want to keep a possibility open, so how do I handle this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You'd get less views if you stopped checking yourself.

First

"Why do you keep asking, are you trying to indiscreetly tell me that you're passionately in love with me or trying to get into my pants or something?"

If you already know she likes you and she's said it,

"Why don't you ask me on a date and find out if I like you?"
 
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since ur persuing that other chick, why not just date this girl that likes u mayb get a lil practice in and keep your eye on the gold bra, after all ***** is *****
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't ever tell a girl that you like her. Keep her guessing. Show some signs every once in a while but I wouldn't tell her.

Back to the point. If it was me, I'd just try and hook up with the girl that you are talking to right now.
 
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