"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So She likes me, but there's an issue.

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SmoothTalker

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Hey DJ's, I need some advice. Yesterday during a conversation it came out that this girl likes me. (I knew it before she said it, lots of flirting) But at the moment I'm persuing somebody else, and besides she has a boyfriend.

Now she keeps asking if I like her, and she's the kind of person that would take it seriously if I say no, and I want to keep a possibility open, so how do I handle this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You'd get less views if you stopped checking yourself.

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"Why do you keep asking, are you trying to indiscreetly tell me that you're passionately in love with me or trying to get into my pants or something?"

If you already know she likes you and she's said it,

"Why don't you ask me on a date and find out if I like you?"
 
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since ur persuing that other chick, why not just date this girl that likes u mayb get a lil practice in and keep your eye on the gold bra, after all ***** is *****
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't ever tell a girl that you like her. Keep her guessing. Show some signs every once in a while but I wouldn't tell her.

Back to the point. If it was me, I'd just try and hook up with the girl that you are talking to right now.
 
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