Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
This blows. I always loved the way that this site was free of banner ads and popups. It looks like that is now in the past.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So now we have banner ads...great
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Master Don Juan
What banner ads?
KontrollerX
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Just download mozilla firefox and get the adblock and filterset g extensions and you won't see any adds on any message boards ever again.
Ace of Flames
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I remember seeing an ad here or there, but never a pop-up.
The ads never really bothered me.
The ads never really bothered me.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
What banner ads?
Under 'sponsored links:'
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131881
Sometimes they're there, sometimes not.
And although I have not had popups, my terminology was wrong, there are equally annoying flash animations that crawl over the screen:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131896
Under 'sponsored links:'
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131881
Sometimes they're there, sometimes not.
And although I have not had popups, my terminology was wrong, there are equally annoying flash animations that crawl over the screen:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131896
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Master Don Juan
Doh.. i'm using firefoxKontrollerX said:
And i just realized that link was to the mature forum. Man the mods gonna be on my ass again for posting there.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no my firefox is getting popups when i log in here too
Oh big deal, this is a high traffic area so naturally advertisers would contact Allen to try and put their ads here for money. Those ads are not bad at all, very small and discreet and if Allen wants to make a little money on his site while keeping this site free then I support it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.