"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt

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This blows. I always loved the way that this site was free of banner ads and popups. It looks like that is now in the past.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Phyzzle

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(I don't see any.)
 

KontrollerX

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Just download mozilla firefox and get the adblock and filterset g extensions and you won't see any adds on any message boards ever again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Play the Game

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KontrollerX said:
Just download mozilla firefox and get the adblock and filterset g extensions and you won't see any adds on any message boards ever again.
Doh.. i'm using firefox :D

And i just realized that link was to the mature forum. Man the mods gonna be on my ass again for posting there.
 

Phyzzle

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Under the sponsored links, I see sponsored links. They've been there for a year.

HA HA HAAAA! It's just you!! :D
 

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no my firefox is getting popups when i log in here too
 

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Oh big deal, this is a high traffic area so naturally advertisers would contact Allen to try and put their ads here for money. Those ads are not bad at all, very small and discreet and if Allen wants to make a little money on his site while keeping this site free then I support it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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