Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
This blows. I always loved the way that this site was free of banner ads and popups. It looks like that is now in the past.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So now we have banner ads...great
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Master Don Juan
What banner ads?
KontrollerX
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Just download mozilla firefox and get the adblock and filterset g extensions and you won't see any adds on any message boards ever again.
Ace of Flames
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I remember seeing an ad here or there, but never a pop-up.
The ads never really bothered me.
The ads never really bothered me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
What banner ads?
Under 'sponsored links:'
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131881
Sometimes they're there, sometimes not.
And although I have not had popups, my terminology was wrong, there are equally annoying flash animations that crawl over the screen:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131896
Under 'sponsored links:'
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131881
Sometimes they're there, sometimes not.
And although I have not had popups, my terminology was wrong, there are equally annoying flash animations that crawl over the screen:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131896
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Master Don Juan
Doh.. i'm using firefoxKontrollerX said:
And i just realized that link was to the mature forum. Man the mods gonna be on my ass again for posting there.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no my firefox is getting popups when i log in here too
Oh big deal, this is a high traffic area so naturally advertisers would contact Allen to try and put their ads here for money. Those ads are not bad at all, very small and discreet and if Allen wants to make a little money on his site while keeping this site free then I support it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.