Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
This blows. I always loved the way that this site was free of banner ads and popups. It looks like that is now in the past.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So now we have banner ads...great
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Master Don Juan
What banner ads?
KontrollerX
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Just download mozilla firefox and get the adblock and filterset g extensions and you won't see any adds on any message boards ever again.
Ace of Flames
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I remember seeing an ad here or there, but never a pop-up.
The ads never really bothered me.
The ads never really bothered me.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
What banner ads?
Under 'sponsored links:'
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131881
Sometimes they're there, sometimes not.
And although I have not had popups, my terminology was wrong, there are equally annoying flash animations that crawl over the screen:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131896
Under 'sponsored links:'
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131881
Sometimes they're there, sometimes not.
And although I have not had popups, my terminology was wrong, there are equally annoying flash animations that crawl over the screen:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131896
Play the Game
Master Don Juan
Doh.. i'm using firefoxKontrollerX said:
And i just realized that link was to the mature forum. Man the mods gonna be on my ass again for posting there.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no my firefox is getting popups when i log in here too
Oh big deal, this is a high traffic area so naturally advertisers would contact Allen to try and put their ads here for money. Those ads are not bad at all, very small and discreet and if Allen wants to make a little money on his site while keeping this site free then I support it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.