Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Everybody is laughing at you because you call yourself a "HB"
HB = "Hot Babe" or "Honey Bunny" aka something with a vagina.
HB = "Hot Babe" or "Honey Bunny" aka something with a vagina.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Are you looking for sympathy or for help? If you're looking for sympathy, you have mine. Your life sucks. If you're looking for help, then stop listing all your problems and do something with your life. Everyone has problems. Get over them. A good life isn't a life without problems, but a life where you can overcome your problems and learn from them. The most help and support you will receive is from within, not from an online forum.Daniel_miles said:I have trimmed my beard. What would you rate me as now? http://img151.imagevenue.com/img.php?loc=loc198&image=74248_untitled.JPG
Anything else I should work on? I think I am a HB 9 for sure though.
My depression does get me down its hard to like this world when you view it the way I do. I'm 19 kissed 3 girls (all chubby and underage) I am a virgin, will be for a long time. Face a large prison sentence. Dad has cancer. Mum literally hates me because of my arrest. I have to live my grandparents now because of it and they are really strict. I haven't really left the house for 3 months.
This is what I meant in my original reply. You can't categorize yourself as a hot babe no matter how much you want toSerialized3 said:Everybody is laughing at you because you call yourself a "HB"
HB = "Hot Babe" or "Honey Bunny" aka something with a vagina.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.