Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Everybody is laughing at you because you call yourself a "HB"
HB = "Hot Babe" or "Honey Bunny" aka something with a vagina.
HB = "Hot Babe" or "Honey Bunny" aka something with a vagina.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Are you looking for sympathy or for help? If you're looking for sympathy, you have mine. Your life sucks. If you're looking for help, then stop listing all your problems and do something with your life. Everyone has problems. Get over them. A good life isn't a life without problems, but a life where you can overcome your problems and learn from them. The most help and support you will receive is from within, not from an online forum.Daniel_miles said:I have trimmed my beard. What would you rate me as now? http://img151.imagevenue.com/img.php?loc=loc198&image=74248_untitled.JPG
Anything else I should work on? I think I am a HB 9 for sure though.
My depression does get me down its hard to like this world when you view it the way I do. I'm 19 kissed 3 girls (all chubby and underage) I am a virgin, will be for a long time. Face a large prison sentence. Dad has cancer. Mum literally hates me because of my arrest. I have to live my grandparents now because of it and they are really strict. I haven't really left the house for 3 months.
This is what I meant in my original reply. You can't categorize yourself as a hot babe no matter how much you want toSerialized3 said:Everybody is laughing at you because you call yourself a "HB"
HB = "Hot Babe" or "Honey Bunny" aka something with a vagina.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.