Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Everybody is laughing at you because you call yourself a "HB"
HB = "Hot Babe" or "Honey Bunny" aka something with a vagina.
HB = "Hot Babe" or "Honey Bunny" aka something with a vagina.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So many Problems.
- Thread starter Daniel_miles
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
jack knife
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Are you looking for sympathy or for help? If you're looking for sympathy, you have mine. Your life sucks. If you're looking for help, then stop listing all your problems and do something with your life. Everyone has problems. Get over them. A good life isn't a life without problems, but a life where you can overcome your problems and learn from them. The most help and support you will receive is from within, not from an online forum.Daniel_miles said:
You haven't left your house in 3 months? You aren't even trying to deal with your issues. What, are you expecting a girl to knock on your door and beg for sex? No matter how good you think you look, nobody is going to take care of your life for you.
Daniel_miles
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I haven't left my grand parents house properly in about 3 months because of my arrest. My grandparents don't allow me to go out because of what I have done.
Regardless of the above I'm here to learn and improve. I may question why I need to do such a thing but I think it through and take not of it. I have already trimmed my beard down because a lot of people here recomended I should.
Both me and my friend have some major problems in our lives of which I don't expect any sympathy from. They are not an excuse merely another hinderance. Before I even start to improve all that you guys have made it clear that me and my friend need to do some serious revamping of our looks. Your right, I'm not going to get the kind of help to overcome my problems but thats not why I am here. I am here to find out for what reasons me and my friend are "UGLY" then improve on that. Shaving my beard is a step in the right direction I hope but what else can I and my friend do? I think no matter what my friend does he will be ugly, is this the case? If so where does he go from there?
Regardless of the above I'm here to learn and improve. I may question why I need to do such a thing but I think it through and take not of it. I have already trimmed my beard down because a lot of people here recomended I should.
Both me and my friend have some major problems in our lives of which I don't expect any sympathy from. They are not an excuse merely another hinderance. Before I even start to improve all that you guys have made it clear that me and my friend need to do some serious revamping of our looks. Your right, I'm not going to get the kind of help to overcome my problems but thats not why I am here. I am here to find out for what reasons me and my friend are "UGLY" then improve on that. Shaving my beard is a step in the right direction I hope but what else can I and my friend do? I think no matter what my friend does he will be ugly, is this the case? If so where does he go from there?
ok man you really are not getting this, the critiscam in here is harsh but there is a saying, be crual to be kind and it applies to you.
We dont give a monkeys about the drug thing at all, most guy/girls experimented at some stage.
YOu looks, they need to be changed more then just trimming the beard i am not going over the same old stuff again and again and again just cos your too blind to see the advice offered.
You friend, tell him to cut back on the hair gel and get his fat chubby ass down to the gym, you could join him too since your waist line is a tad on the skinny side.
GYM, cloths new style, new look new you, shed the coccoon now is the time to do it.
We dont give a monkeys about the drug thing at all, most guy/girls experimented at some stage.
YOu looks, they need to be changed more then just trimming the beard i am not going over the same old stuff again and again and again just cos your too blind to see the advice offered.
You friend, tell him to cut back on the hair gel and get his fat chubby ass down to the gym, you could join him too since your waist line is a tad on the skinny side.
GYM, cloths new style, new look new you, shed the coccoon now is the time to do it.
This is what I meant in my original reply. You can't categorize yourself as a hot babe no matter how much you want toSerialized3 said:
You are below average looking, but not deformed, so you can still get girls. Grab your balls and fix your life. Girls should not be your first priority, even though i know it's hard too feel complete without that aspect of your life handled. Keep improving and don't do drugs
Oh btw, just because David Beckham is english doesn't mean that most british dudes aren't pale, ugly redheads most of the time
That's why the english girls are so happy when us scandinavians comes to visit
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.