Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Everybody is laughing at you because you call yourself a "HB"
HB = "Hot Babe" or "Honey Bunny" aka something with a vagina.
HB = "Hot Babe" or "Honey Bunny" aka something with a vagina.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Are you looking for sympathy or for help? If you're looking for sympathy, you have mine. Your life sucks. If you're looking for help, then stop listing all your problems and do something with your life. Everyone has problems. Get over them. A good life isn't a life without problems, but a life where you can overcome your problems and learn from them. The most help and support you will receive is from within, not from an online forum.Daniel_miles said:I have trimmed my beard. What would you rate me as now? http://img151.imagevenue.com/img.php?loc=loc198&image=74248_untitled.JPG
Anything else I should work on? I think I am a HB 9 for sure though.
My depression does get me down its hard to like this world when you view it the way I do. I'm 19 kissed 3 girls (all chubby and underage) I am a virgin, will be for a long time. Face a large prison sentence. Dad has cancer. Mum literally hates me because of my arrest. I have to live my grandparents now because of it and they are really strict. I haven't really left the house for 3 months.
This is what I meant in my original reply. You can't categorize yourself as a hot babe no matter how much you want toSerialized3 said:Everybody is laughing at you because you call yourself a "HB"
HB = "Hot Babe" or "Honey Bunny" aka something with a vagina.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.