"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So many different views,I'm so confused

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I pretty much spent a whole days worth reading Don Juan type discussion and theories and I have to say that I'm pretty damn confused.
One person says that Romancing a girl is for "losers" and to just go for it in the most blaint way and Another person says to be extremely patient and distant.

I'm going out tonight with some friends guys and girls and I have no clue on what I should do. I'm really trying not to be negative but I really just see the night ending up no better than others.

Can somebody give me some specific homework? For some reason I work better with "homework." (Assigned)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I got some homework for you. Act before you think. Listen to your instincts, you know where they are. Its that voice that says this is the way and there is no other.


Listen to your instincts and take action before you begin rationalizing and the fear creeps in. Just do it.
 

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those different views represent different styles. u shouldnt follow everything that others say, but take the best from everyone and add it to your own abilities. make your own style.

"u cant learn everything overnight". in this case, "rome wasnt built in a day". what i mean is, dont expect to come here, read a few articles, post 3 times, and become an insta-dj. tonight might not work out wonderful like u may want, but thats ok. u can work on your stuff, and maybe the next time u go out, it'll be better.

for tonight, i suggest u dont worry about it. just be a guy chilling with his friends on a..... tuesday night. all these tips and junk bungled in your brain will just confuse u and bring u down. u wont enjoy the night at all.

have fun!
 

So pimp its scary

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For sure... it took me almost a year from finding this site before I considered myself to be 'average' with women.
 

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but i found out for all the lifestyle djs techqnies... u must first over come something

TO LOVE URSELF


CONFIDENCE NIGA!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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