"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So many different views,I'm so confused

The Deeg

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I pretty much spent a whole days worth reading Don Juan type discussion and theories and I have to say that I'm pretty damn confused.
One person says that Romancing a girl is for "losers" and to just go for it in the most blaint way and Another person says to be extremely patient and distant.

I'm going out tonight with some friends guys and girls and I have no clue on what I should do. I'm really trying not to be negative but I really just see the night ending up no better than others.

Can somebody give me some specific homework? For some reason I work better with "homework." (Assigned)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I got some homework for you. Act before you think. Listen to your instincts, you know where they are. Its that voice that says this is the way and there is no other.


Listen to your instincts and take action before you begin rationalizing and the fear creeps in. Just do it.
 

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those different views represent different styles. u shouldnt follow everything that others say, but take the best from everyone and add it to your own abilities. make your own style.

"u cant learn everything overnight". in this case, "rome wasnt built in a day". what i mean is, dont expect to come here, read a few articles, post 3 times, and become an insta-dj. tonight might not work out wonderful like u may want, but thats ok. u can work on your stuff, and maybe the next time u go out, it'll be better.

for tonight, i suggest u dont worry about it. just be a guy chilling with his friends on a..... tuesday night. all these tips and junk bungled in your brain will just confuse u and bring u down. u wont enjoy the night at all.

have fun!
 

So pimp its scary

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For sure... it took me almost a year from finding this site before I considered myself to be 'average' with women.
 

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but i found out for all the lifestyle djs techqnies... u must first over come something

TO LOVE URSELF


CONFIDENCE NIGA!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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