"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So many different views,I'm so confused

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I pretty much spent a whole days worth reading Don Juan type discussion and theories and I have to say that I'm pretty damn confused.
One person says that Romancing a girl is for "losers" and to just go for it in the most blaint way and Another person says to be extremely patient and distant.

I'm going out tonight with some friends guys and girls and I have no clue on what I should do. I'm really trying not to be negative but I really just see the night ending up no better than others.

Can somebody give me some specific homework? For some reason I work better with "homework." (Assigned)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I got some homework for you. Act before you think. Listen to your instincts, you know where they are. Its that voice that says this is the way and there is no other.


Listen to your instincts and take action before you begin rationalizing and the fear creeps in. Just do it.
 

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those different views represent different styles. u shouldnt follow everything that others say, but take the best from everyone and add it to your own abilities. make your own style.

"u cant learn everything overnight". in this case, "rome wasnt built in a day". what i mean is, dont expect to come here, read a few articles, post 3 times, and become an insta-dj. tonight might not work out wonderful like u may want, but thats ok. u can work on your stuff, and maybe the next time u go out, it'll be better.

for tonight, i suggest u dont worry about it. just be a guy chilling with his friends on a..... tuesday night. all these tips and junk bungled in your brain will just confuse u and bring u down. u wont enjoy the night at all.

have fun!
 

So pimp its scary

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For sure... it took me almost a year from finding this site before I considered myself to be 'average' with women.
 

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but i found out for all the lifestyle djs techqnies... u must first over come something

TO LOVE URSELF


CONFIDENCE NIGA!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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