"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So I've been thinking...

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I've been thinking about putting all my thoughts, theories, and observations about women into written form. I always have things floating around in my brain, thinking "that would make a good post on Sosuave", but sometimes I feel like these small chunks of things that I post get lost or lose meaning due to the absence of all the other things that go along with it. In other words, I'm contemplating writing an ebook about women and how I understand them. I feel like it would be helpful to those who are desperately trying to fill their life with a female companion. I'd make it available for free download because I'd rather see men get the help they need as opposed to making money off it.

Not sure where I'd find the time to write it, but I know damn well it would flow once I start.

Any interest?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think it’s a great idea. I’m always ready to hear the thoughts and opinions of others. It would be a project, but one that’s quite worthwhile.
 

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Would it be a manual or something deeper?
I have no desire to write a manual, but rather go really in depth into how things work. I'm not wanting to write about how to attract women because there's enough information kicking around on how to do that. It would be more on how women function, how society comes into play, and the problems as well as some solutions on how to make it work in your favor. I would also put some "inner game" stuff in there as well, but I wouldn't be solely focusing on that.

Women are interesting creatures, and I still feel like there are too many guys out there who expect women to behave logically. I would try communicating how they DON'T work logically.
 

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If Rollo could do it, I don't see why you can't. The only question I'd ask yourself is do you have enough to say to fill a book? Seduction material is notorious for packing in a lot of filler material; taking 20 pages to say what could be said in a sentence or two.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If Rollo could do it, I don't see why you can't. The only question I'd ask yourself is do you have enough to say to fill a book? Seduction material is notorious for packing in a lot of filler material; taking 20 pages to say what could be said in a sentence or two.
It would just be an ebook. I'm not looking for mass distribution. To me, it would just be a really long sosuave post. When I write about something on this forum, I always feel like the post could use a lot more elaboration. I always feel like I'm limited by space when I'm posting things. If I put it all in a pdf, I have no limits.
 

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I'd be really interested to see something like this. We already have the introductory PDFs and guides here so I don't see why you couldn't write one
 

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Book of Pook is a great book, but it's mostly unattainable for an average guy. I think if you going to write a book you need to target your audience. If it's nice guys, appeal to them, if it's djs, appeal to them. You need a website to go along with the book, so that when people search google for something they find your book. How I come across all of this, I went online looking for relationship advice, and found david d's ebook. Something like that.
 

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You could try writing a seduction/human behavior/charisma set of books like Robert Greene's "The Art of Seduction" & "The 48 Laws of Power".......

"The Art of Seduction" has been very eye-opening for me.... At its core, the main lesson Greene preaches is "Choose the right victim" and "Mold yourself to fill some void that the victim is missing"....
 

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Women are interesting creatures, and I still feel like there are too many guys out there who expect women to behave logically. I would try communicating how they DON'T work logically.
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus has a lot of material on that theme. It would be good for you to read as background research of the topic.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If Rollo could do it, I don't see why you can't. The only question I'd ask yourself is do you have enough to say to fill a book? Seduction material is notorious for packing in a lot of filler material; taking 20 pages to say what could be said in a sentence or two.
Aye, there be plenty of wind bags around! :)
 

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Aye, there be plenty of wind bags around! :)
I think it's more that they are trying to disguise a few ideas as being a larger product. That they are intentionally trying to make it look like they have more to offer than they actually do. But yes, plenty of wind bags about.
 

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I've been thinking about putting all my thoughts, theories, and observations about women into written form. I always have things floating around in my brain, thinking "that would make a good post on Sosuave", but sometimes I feel like these small chunks of things that I post get lost or lose meaning due to the absence of all the other things that go along with it. In other words, I'm contemplating writing an ebook about women and how I understand them. I feel like it would be helpful to those who are desperately trying to fill their life with a female companion. I'd make it available for free download because I'd rather see men get the help they need as opposed to making money off it.

Not sure where I'd find the time to write it, but I know damn well it would flow once I start.

Any interest?
These days marketing the book is more important than the book itself. Some people will buy it if it is too low price, but if you want to make real money most likely you will need some marketing efforts
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd read it because you are a normal, humble guy with all the same struggles the rest of us have, and always very honest and open about them.
Hmm. Will people read a book on seduction if it's not written by a giant douche? That's a rare undertaking.
 

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No one reads anymore. You are better off making a series of youtube videos explaining your viewpoint
 

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I've always found your posts enlightening Des so I'd definitely read it if you do.

I actually want to create big post on here listing as many experiences I've had with women I can remember with lessons, theories, and even questions after each one. I've been telling myself I'd do this for years and haven't yet, but hopefully I'll get it posted soon.
 

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I'm in but I agree reading is so 1990s. I now look for the TLDR version of everything. Even videos I don't watch if they're longer than 10 mins. A good compromise is bullet point lists and if it's too long break it up into sections under different categories. Just my 2 cents.
 

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Do it Des. It would be a good read. You are practical & pragmatic with your head screwed on straight & lots of field experience.

Do it.

Cheers, BE
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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